The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.
30 July 2025
Q: When I stay at a monastery, I have to cook and do chores. The advantage is if I have any questions, I can ask the abbot. If I stay at my cottage, I can listen to Ajahn Mahā Boowa’s talks and your talks and message you my questions. Is it better to practise meditation in a monastery or at my cottage when I am alone?
Than Ajahn: Well, it depends on the result, which one is better? You have to look at the result of your practice. If one is better than the other one then you choose the one that is better. Look at the result of your practice, the calm and the progress that you make on your practice. Sometimes you might have to switch and go back to your teacher.
Sometimes the teacher can help you solve your obstacles, but sometimes, if you’re alone, you can have more time to do your practice. So it depends on what you need and then you can decide, for that particular time, whether you should be with your teacher or be alone.
Q: I am an artist (an actor and musician) living in Vancouver, Canada. I have some minor success over the years but I rarely have experienced a satisfied life energy. I have a few wonderful opportunities coming up soon which I am grateful for but ultimately, for many days I feel myself disconnected, alone and sad. Can you please help me find my way again?
Than Ajahn: Well, according to the Buddha, there is nothing in this world that can give you contentment and satisfaction. No matter how successful you might be, you’ll still find loneliness and emptiness when you’re alone.
The only thing in this world that will make you content and happy is the practice of meditation. You should learn to practice meditation, mindfulness meditation so that you can stop your thoughts, your emotions, your desires and your cravings that make you feel lonely, that makes you feel hungry for things, makes you feel empty.
Q: Are vedanā, saññā, saṅkhārā and viññāṇa made up by the 4 elements?
Than Ajahn: No, those are parts of the knowing element. The 5 elements make up the body. The earth element, the water, the fire and the wind element are combined to form the body; while the nāma-khandha (which is vedanā, saññā, saṅkhārā and viññāṇa) comes from the mind. The nāma-khandha is part of the mind (which is the knowing element).
Q: If my parents and my sister create emotional distress for me, is it bad kamma if I distance myself from them?
Than Ajahn: No, this is the way to stop creating kamma because if you remain close to them, you couldn’t resist reacting to what they do and say and then you’re creating more kamma. The way to stop creating new kamma is to distance yourself from them.
Q: My heart knows that I have to let go of things, but my mind will cling to them and worry about many things. What is the difference between the heart and the mind?
Than Ajahn: It’s the same thing. We just refer to the mind as the intellect part, the thinking part, while the heart is the emotional part so there is no difference. It comes from the same thing which we call ‘mind’ or ‘heart.’ It’s the non-physical part of us, the thinking and the knowing part of us.
The way for you to go forward from here is to develop the tools that will enable you to let go of everything.
You know that clinging is bad for you because when you cling to things, it can make you sad, it can hurt you.
You cannot let go of them because you don’t have the tools of the strength.
So you need to develop the tools of the strength which is composed of the three training called ‘the Triple Training,’ i.e. dāna (charity), sīla (morality) and bhāvanā (mental development or meditation). You need these 3 tools to let go of your attachment to different things. You do charity to let go of your attachment to money. You maintain morality to let go of your bad actions. And you do meditation or mind development to get rid of your cravings, your attachments to other things. Once you can practice these 3 steps then you will be able to let go of everything and then you will be peaceful and happy.
By Ajaan Suchart Abhijāto
YouTube: Dhamma in English.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi_BnRZmNgECsJGS31F495g
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