The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.
31 July 2025
“We must train our minds to be centered.”
The happiness that comes from calming the mind with meditation is good, but it is not as good as the peace that comes from eliminating defilements with wisdom, because the peace of meditation is temporary, like a stone pressed on grass.
When the stone presses the grass, the grass will not grow. When the stone is removed, the grass will receive water, air, and sunlight, and will grow again.
Defilements are the same when we meditate until the mind is calm and still. At that moment, we feel that there are no defilements at all. There is no greed, anger, or delusion. There is only happiness and comfort, but it does not last long. When we leave meditation, we start thinking, fabricating, seeing, and hearing. Defilements will come out and wander. We start liking this, hating that, wanting that, wanting to escape from this, because meditation only stops defilements. It temporarily stops defilements.
Defilements rely on the mental fabrication of thoughts, using memory and perception as tools. When we see something, we remember what it is. Whether it is male or female, good or bad, like or dislike, it will follow.
When we like something, the mental fabrication will order us to go and get it. If we do not like it, we tell us to walk away. The mental fabrication of desire arises.
Whatever we like, we want to get close to it. Whatever we dislike, we want to get away from it. If we cannot escape, we suffer and are troubled. If you have to live with things you don’t like, such as when you meet someone, you just scold them, criticize them, and criticize them, your mind will not like them. If you can’t get away from them, you will suffer. If you meet someone who compliments you all the time, you want them to stay with you forever and not disappear. When they disappear, you will feel sorry and sad, which will cause suffering.
If you like them, you will suffer. If you don’t like them, you will suffer.
Therefore, you have to train your mind to be in the middle between liking and disliking. Be equanimity.
Just know and be aware of everything your mind senses, whether it be form, sound, smell, taste, or touch.
To do this, you have to consider that what you like is not really good. What you don’t like is not really bad.
Both what you like and dislike are the same. They are the three characteristics.
They are both impermanent. They cause you suffering.
They cannot be controlled. This is the way to practice with these things. This is to prevent your mind from being disturbed and clouded. This is to make your mind equanimity.
To make your mind equanimity, you have to have concentration. If you don’t have concentration, you won’t know where equanimity is. You will only like or dislike things. However, if you have concentration, you will know what equanimity is. When you move to like or dislike something, you will know immediately that you have left the point of equanimity. You will know that your mind is starting to waver. I am entering into suffering because if I like something, I will be sad.
When something I like goes away, if I encounter something I dislike, I will immediately feel anxious. I have to pull my mind back to equanimity. If I pull it with mindfulness, it will last temporarily. If I pull it with wisdom, it will last permanently. I have to accept the truth that things I dislike are a part of life. When we have to be together, we should stay together. We don’t have to reject it, move away, or drive it away. The form we like or dislike is the same form. The person we like or dislike also comes from the earth, water, wind, and fire. If we see it as just a form, there will be no emotion of like or dislike. If we consider everything down to the three characteristics, the mind will be equanimous. The mind will let go. This is a matter of wisdom that requires concentration to support it. If we don’t have concentration, we won’t be able to stop the mind and make the mind equanimous. The wisdom will not yet be true wisdom. It is wisdom that comes from hearing, listening, and studying, which is called Pariyatti Dhamma or Suttamaya wisdom. If it is wisdom that comes from contemplation, it will be imaginary wisdom. It doesn’t have enough power to stop defilements or cut off defilements because it is incoherent wisdom. It can be remembered and forgotten. It is still far from the mind.
When a real event occurs, we won’t be able to extinguish defilements in time because we have accidentally forgotten. We know that it is not good. But when I actually met him, I saw that everything was good. I liked him immediately. I forgot all about the pain and suffering I had experienced with that person.
When I met him, my heart softened because I still liked him. But if I had concentration, I would be able to continuously develop my wisdom. I would consider that this person was not good with every breath I took.
If I considered in this way, then it would be the wisdom of meditation, the wisdom that cuts off defilements.
Phra Ajahn Suchart Aphichato
By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto
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