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Friday, 29 December 2023

The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.

The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.

3 January 2024

Q:  Previously Ajahn mentioned about ‘See just seeing, hear just hearing,’ is this the behaviour of one who has magga phala?

Than Ajahn:  Seeing but not see, hearing but not listening – you don’t take things that you see or hear into your heart/mind, you leave them outside. It doesn't matter who can do it, but just do it. If you can do it, you can do it. If you can’t do it, then you don’t do it. That’s all. 

Some people might not even study the Dhamma but they understand nature, they understand life, they understand how to deal with things in order not to get themselves hurt or stressful. It doesn’t mean that you have to be a Buddhist to do this, sometimes one is a Buddhist without a label which is better than being a Buddhist but not knowing what the Buddha’s teachings are all about. 

It's all about keeping dukkha away from your mind. 

That's all the purpose of the Buddha’s teachings which is to get rid of dukkha or to prevent dukkha from entering into your mind by merely know what you see or hear and not reacting to them, that’s all. Not to react with love, hate, fear or delusion. But you can react with mindfulness or loving kindness and compassion - you can do that. This won’t hurt you if you react this way. If you react with love, hate or fear, this will create dukkha in your mind. 

In order for you to be able to do this you need a lot of equanimity. You have to practice a lot of mindfulness and meditation to calm your mind to make it into equanimity.


“Dhamma in English, Mar 14, 2023.”

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Q:  I've been thinking a lot about acceptance and surrender. Do you have anything to say on them?

Than Ajahn:  If you can accept reality that's the best thing. Whatever is happening don't try to change or try to manage it. If you can try to live with what is happening then you won't have any stress. Stress comes up when you try to manage or try to change reality. So just keep teaching your mind to fall in line with reality, to blend in with reality, not to go into conflict with reality. Reality means what's happening right now. 

If it rains, just enjoy the rain. If it’s flood, enjoy the flood. Try to enjoy everything that happens then you won't have to do anything. The problem is you don’t enjoy what’s happening then you want to change things to make it enjoyable to you and this can get you into a lot of trouble. Get rid of your likes and dislike then everything will be okay, everything is good in itself.

You can do this with meditation. Meditation will help to make your mind to become neutral eliminating the likes and dislikes from your mind so when you see anything you can merely accept it and merely knowing. 

The Buddha said that whatever you see just merely see, whatever you hear just merely hear. No need to do anything. You don't need to fix things because no matter how you fix them eventually what you’ve fixed will change and will fall apart again except for those which is essential to your existence then you might have to fix it like if your house falls apart then you have to fix it. Do only what is necessary or essential to your existence otherwise don’t bother.

Try to blend in, try to accept them. And you have to do this with meditation. The calmer you mind is, the easier for you to accept things as they are. If your mind is not calm, it means your defilement is active. Your defilement has likes and dislikes. It’s never satisfied. 

No matter how much you do for your defilement, it will never be satisfied, never be content. You want more of something different. 

Q: I really like, ‘Just see what you see, hear what you hear. Just accept.’

Than Ajahn:  Yeah. There is nothing to do. When you hear something whether you like it or not, just hear and let it be, let it go. Once words are spoken, they are already gone, right? But you keep repeating them in your mind. You don't let go. You become attached to the words that people said. 

You should let them come and go. They are all transient. They come and go. They appear then they disappear.  If you have mindfulness and if you meditate and your mind becomes still then you’ll see that everything rises and ceases, everything comes and goes, everything appears and disappears. 

But when your mind is not calm your mind keeps clinging to things even though they’ve already gone you still keep repeating the stories in your mind. When your mind is calm and still, it doesn't rerun anything. 

Once it's gone it's gone.

So practice mindfulness and meditation to still your mind, to stop your mind from going after things. Things already disappeared but you still won't let it disappear. 

Much work to do but it’s worth it. 

Student:  Definitely.

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Q:  When you say ‘See just see, hear just hear,’ one has to have some form of equanimity right? 

Than Ajahn:  Yes, I think this is something the Buddha taught someone who already had jhanā, someone who already had equanimity but didn’t know how to apply the equanimity properly. 

Q:  It’s interesting how we always keep looking for certain features in what we see like if I see a rose, I can’t just see it, I want look at it, look at the colour, and smell it. 

Than Ajahn:  Yes, we use sankhāra as soon as we see or hear something. We can’t just leave sankhāra alone. Sankhāra will start to think about good or bad, likes or dislikes, what should I do with what I see or hear or whether to react happily or sadly. But if you have equanimity then you don’t react to what you see or hear.

If you leave everything alone then it means you have equanimity. It depends on how much you can let things go. Sometimes you can let go half of them but not all. It depends on your equanimity whether you have 50 percent equanimity or 100 percent equanimity.


“Dhamma in English, Jul 18, 2023.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.

The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.

2 January 2024

Q: The ultimate goal of Buddhism is attaining Nibbāna. So is it proper for Buddhists to expect or wish for any material benefits or comforts (such as a better job, more wealth, good health, good marriage) in return by making an offering to an Arahant or by engaging in the Ten Meritorious Deeds mentioned in the Buddha’s suttas?

Than Ajahn: If you practice the teaching of the Buddha completely, you will get to the ultimate goal of Nibbāna. But if you only practice partially, you will only get partial results. That’s what it is. 

So if you only practice sīla (morality or keeping the 5 precepts) and practice charity, the consequence of these two practices will give you birth in heaven. And when you come back as a human again, you will come back richer than you are now. So whether you like it or not, this is what happens. And some people still just want to return and live on this earth. They forget that being born they will get old, get sick and die. They only think of the good things that they can do if they become rich. 

So a lot of people will only partially practice the Buddha’s teaching. 

Usually practicing keeping the 5 precepts and practicing charity. By doing these, they have a happy mind and when they die the mind goes to heaven. And after it has expired the merit, it returns and gets reborn as a human being again as a rich or wealthy human being due to the dāna (charity) and the precepts that were kept. 

But if you practice the third teaching of the Buddha which is bhavānā, then you will be able to not return. 

You will reach Nibbāna. 

So it is up to you. It’s like a menu in a restaurant. You can choose the food you want to eat. How much food you want to have. If you want to have the complete full course meal, then you will get the ultimate result of Buddhism. But if you only want to practice partially, only some parts of the Buddha’s teaching, then you will only get some of the results, instead of Nibbāna.

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Q:  How to practice bhāvanā?

Than Ajahn:  Bhāvanā is the practice of meditation and developing of wisdom. First you practise the practice of samādhi. Bhāvanā has 2 parts: the first part is the practice of samādhi and the second part is the development of wisdom (vipassanā). 

So you have to practise the first one first by developing mindfulness to stop your thoughts. 

When you have strong mindfulness, you can stop your thoughts which will cause your mind to become peaceful and calm. This is called samādhi. 

Once you have samādhi, when you're not meditating, you teach your mind the Four Noble Truths and the Three Characteristics of Existence. Then you will have wisdom. With these two (samādhi and vipassanā) then you will be able to get rid of all your defilements and the consequence of following your defilements which is rebirth.


“Dhamma in English, Mar 26, 2023.”

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Q:  The path of cultivation of dāna, sīla, bhāvanā is about letting go, so doing dāna is the practise of letting go of our self. But some temples emphasize that doing dāna is for gaining merit, yet there is nothing to be gained, because practising dana is practising of letting go. Is it wrong when they said we are gaining merit by doing dāna? 

Than Ajahn:  You gain merit, which is the ‘good feeling’ from letting go, then you will have no worry about the things that you’ve given away. If you gave away your husband, then you wouldn’t have to worry about your husband anymore. 

Q:  That’s a higher level of giving.  I feel that there is a limit when I have to let go because sometimes I feel painful. So when you said that the more we give things away, the happier we will be, I think I haven’t reached that level yet.

Than Ajahn:  Some people can let go all of their physical possessions. Like the Buddha, he gave up his princely life and lived in the forest.

Q:  Sīla is the practise of letting go of our cravings and greed; and bhāvanā is a higher level of letting go. So the Noble Eightfold Path is actually the path about letting go.

Than Ajahn:  That’s right. 

Q:  Sometimes when people explained it, they talked about gaining merit and it’s quite contradicting because what we are talking about is letting go instead of gaining something.

Than Ajahn:  You gain something. You gain peace of mind every time you let go. This peace of mind is called ‘merit.’

Q:  Some temple said that we would get merit and a better rebirth, is this wrong?

Than Ajahn:  No, it’s right because if you have merits, you will be reborn in a higher realm of existence.


“Dhamma in English, Mar 2, 2021.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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Ajaan Suchart Abhijāto: Dhamma for the Asking

Friday, 15 December 2023

“Intelligence vs wisdom.”

The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.

25 December 2023

“Intelligence vs wisdom.”

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Question (M): Some people have a very good intelligence. They are clever in their study but they might not have wisdom. What are the kamma that causes people to have good intelligence but not the wisdom? 

Than Ajahn: It depends on what they learn. If they study about worldly things, then they will become intelligent. But if they want to have the wisdom, then they have to study the teachings of the Buddha. These two kinds of knowledge are different. 

The knowledge that most people study will make them intelligent. They know how to make money but they don’t know how to make themselves not to be sad. 

They don’t know how to prevent sadness or suffering. 

When you study the teachings of the Buddha, you’ll learn about how to make yourself happy. You’ll learn on how to get rid of your sadness. These are the two different distinct types of knowledge. 

Most people are intelligent but not wise because they don’t study the teachings of the Buddha. But if they study the teachings of the Buddha, even when they don’t study the worldly knowledge, they will become wise. We have teachers who are wise, but not intelligent, and so they cannot teach Dhamma because they cannot bring the Dhamma which is inside them, outside.       

A person needs intelligence to bring the Dhamma that he has inside him to express it out to others. He needs to give examples and comparisons in telling the Dhamma and he needs intelligence to do this. If a person is wise but he is not intelligent, he then is not capable of bringing out the wisdom he has. 

Hence, that’s why there are teachers who are well-known, and there are teachers who are not well-known. 

Those who are not well-known usually don’t say or teach much. They may only say Dhamma in general like ‘Do dāna; keep the sīla; and practice bhāvanā.’ 

They don’t know how to explain those in  details.

Therefore, people cannot learn much from them. 

People usually will go to teachers who can expound or explain all the different points of the Dhamma. Teachers who can do that are usually well-known. Like Luangta Mahā Boowa, he was very fluent in giving Dhamma talks. People who listen to his Dhamma talks can apply the Dhamma in their practice, and can achieve the results from the practice. 

This is the difference between having wisdom and having intelligence. 

In order to be able to propagate the Dhamma, one has to have both. If he only has wisdom but doesn’t have the intelligence, he will not know how to bring those wisdom out for others to understand them because he has to give a lot of examples to expound the teachings. 

The Buddha, every time he taught the Dhamma, would gave examples so that people could see the pictures. Dhamma is like a theory. In order to make the teachings practical, one has to explain the theory using examples.


Youtube: “Dhamma in English, Dec 9, 2018.”

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The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.

The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart. 

23 December 2023

Q:  What must we prepare before offering dāna so that we don’t have any kilesa in our mind? 

Than Ajahn:  When you give something you have to have the feeling of wanting to give and you have to let it go. Don’t cling to what you’ve given away. Don't worry about what the receiver will do to your gift. You give for the benefit of the receiver, and once the receiver receives it then it’s no longer your business.

 You want to give in order to open up your heart, to make your heart becomes kind, compassionate and loving to other people—this is the purpose of giving. 

You have to give without attachment to what you give. 

Don't worry about what the receiver would do to what you give because sometimes the receiver might not use what you give but that’s not your business anymore. 

Just give and be happy. Don’t worry about what happens to the gift that you have given away. Once you gave it away, it is no longer belong to you. This will prevent you from having defilements coming up. 

Sometimes people give and they expect the receiver to use it or to eat it, and when the receiver doesn’t do it then the giver becomes sad. 

So you should give with a pure mind, having no expectation from the receiver. You shouldn’t even expect a word of thank you or appreciation. You shouldn’t expect anything because if you expect something from the receiver, when you don't get it, you can become sad or disappointed instead of being happy. 

But of course you should consider before giving things to the person that you want to give to whether they’re worthy of the gift or not, whether they are good or not, whether they are in need or not, for instance.

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Q:  In order for the dāna to be of a high meritorious value, the donor has to be of a morally good person and the receiver also has to be at a high level of morality then this is the most purified form of dāna, is this so?

Than Ajahn:  It doesn’t matter what the morality of the giver or the receiver is as far as dāna is concerned. You can be a thief and if you give something away, you can still receive the result of that giving which is a feeling of happiness inside yourself. So this has nothing to do with the morality of the giver or receiver. 

When you say morality, it only means that if you give something to someone who is morally good then that person will do something good with what you’ve given to him. You are supporting a good person. If you give money to a thief then you’re supporting that thief to do more bad things.

There are many consequences of your dana i.e. the consequences that happen to the giver and the consequences that happen to the receiver. They are different. When you give, the giver feels good. The receiver will also feel good if the gift is something that the receiver can use or can make the receiver’s life better.


“Dhamma in English, Jul 18, 2023.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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YouTube:  Dhamma in English.

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Thursday, 14 December 2023

The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.

The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.

11 June 2024

Q:  When I’m practising Budho I can remind my mind to be happy. Is this what you mean when you tell us to keep the mind happy?

Than Ajahn:  To keep the mind happy is to be mindful all the time. When you are being mindful you can’t think by way of kilesa. So your mind will be calm and peaceful and happy. But as soon as you lose mindfulness, your thoughts can be used by your defilements to go think of some places to go, something to see or something to do. When that happens then you would not be happy with where you are because where you are you cannot do anything.

So if you can stay mindful and stop the mind from having any defilement coming up then you can be happy wherever you are and whatever you have. 

When you’re not happy it’s because you want something, you have no contentment. 

Mindfulness is the one that will keep your mind contented. 

When you are not mindful then your defilements start thinking in terms of what you want. You want something different, want something to do, want something to see, want something to eat or drink. These are all defilements because you’re not having mindfulness to stop your thoughts. So if you have ‘Budho, Budho’ all the time then you can’t think of other things. 

Try to be mindful as much as possible. As soon as you know you want something then you know that you’re not mindful enough. 

You allow your defilements to take over your thoughts. 

So try to be mindful all the time either with ‘Budho, Budho’ or focus on what you do. And meditate as much as possible. 

Then you can keep your mind peaceful and calm and you can control your defilements. 

But this is still a temporary measure. You cannot kill your defilements with mindfulness. 

If you want to kill your defilements, you need to use wisdom to see the Three Characteristics of existence in everything that your defilements want to go after. To see that everything that your defilements want to be dukkha, to be a problem that will hurt you more than giving you pleasure. It might initially give you pleasure but after a while it will give you trouble because you start to cling to it. You don’t want it to change or disappear when the reality is that everything will change, everything will eventually disappear. 

When that happens then you become sad. 

This is wisdom: when you want something, you see the thing you want as having the Three Characteristics of existence. When you see dukkha in everything then you don’t want to have it. If you still see pleasure from it then you’ll still want to go after it. When you see it as trouble then you don’t want to go after it, right? 

The problem is sometimes your mind tries not to see the problem, it only sees the good side of things then you’d want to go after them and eventually they will turn to the bad side and then that’s when they become a problem. So you have to see both sides of the story. 

Every story has two sides: good and bad, up and down. 

When you can see the whole picture then you don’t want to have anything. You don’t want to have anything to do with having anything. You’d rather live alone and depend on your meditation to keep you peaceful and happy.

When you see things as being harmful to you then you will lose your craving or your desire for them. And when you have no desire then you can remain not doing anything and still be happy. It’s your defilements that’s causing you unhappiness when you can’t do anything. 

Once you get rid of your cravings then you can be happy not doing anything. 

It’s that simple but it’s very difficult to do. 

You have to have strong mindfulness and you have to have a sharp wisdom to see things clearly, see things as they are – they are all bad when you see them as being good. 

They're bad because they are transient, they change, they disappear and you cannot control them. 

Do you understand the Three Characteristics? It’s to see everything as temporary. Everything can only give you temporary happiness and pleasure. Sooner or later it will fail, it will no longer gives you happiness and pleasure. 

So just rely on happiness from meditation and mindfulness and wisdom. Try to stop your craving. 

Every time when you have some cravings, try to tell yourself that they’re not essential for your existence. 

If they’re essentials then it’s not craving. Like when it’s time to eat then you have to eat. But how many times a day you have to eat? Once a day is enough. This is essential. If you eat twice a day, then it’s craving already. See what I mean? 

Student:  Yes, yes that sounds like the answer I was looking for.


“Dhamma in English, Aug 1, 2023.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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Tuesday, 5 December 2023

The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.

The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.

9 December 2023

Question:  What is the origin of the ‘one who knows’? 

Than Ajahn:  The one who knows is an element which has a distinct characteristic. It is not composed of anything. It doesn’t break up. It doesn’t change. It is the knowing element. 

In this universe, there are 6 basic elements. 

They are the building block of everything: the earth, fire, air, water, space and the knowing (consciousness) element. When they combine, they become people and animals. 

Those without the ‘knowing’ element, they become trees, mountains, etc. These are the things that are made from the 6 basic elements. These elements do not change. 

They don’t break up. Water will always be water. Air will always be air. Earth will always be earth. Fire will always be fire. Space will always be space. These are the elements. 

The ‘knowing’ or the mind is one of these 6 elements.


“Dhamma in English, Feb 27, 2018.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart.

The Teaching of Ajahn Suchart. 

28 May 2024

Q&A

Q: According to modern science, sleep is essential for our health, and 7-8 hours of sleep is usually recommended. Could you elaborate on the Buddha’s stance on the importance of sleep? According to Buddhist writings, the Buddha slept less than three hours a day. Could you explain?

A: Well, the Buddha recommended monks to sleep about four hours a night. From 6 pm to 10 pm, monks should be doing walking or sitting meditation. Then from 10 pm to 2 am monks should take a rest and sleep. 

Then after 2 am monks have to get up and do more walking and sitting meditation until 6 am and then they start to go on alms rounds. So yes, sleep is essential, the body needs sleep, but it does not need seven or eight hours like the people in the world do. For people who meditate, four hours a night is good enough.

Q: Are post–bereavement hallucinations and voices possible/real? I have often heard people telling that they have undergone this experience soon after the death of a relative. 

Can this happen?

A:  Many things can happen in the mind. And the way to deal with them is to ignore them or treat them as natural phenomena. Treat them as anicca, anattā. They come and go, and there is nothing that you can do to stop/prevent them. When they come let them come, when they go let them go. Do not give them any importance. They are just phenomena that come and go.


“Dhamma in English, Jul 18, 2023.”

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Q: Sak Surin, the Thai tusker that was allegedly abused in Sri Lanka was airlifted to Thailand earlier this month. Numerous organizations that advocate for elephant welfare expressed their opposition to keeping elephants in captivity once more following Sak Surin’s incident. Elephants belong in the wild, not in captivity, are the basic defences. 

What is the Buddhist perspective on keeping animals in captivity? Should we keep any animal in captivity at all?

A: Well, the Buddhist view regarding animal captivity is that we should not put an animal in captivity because we do not like to be kept in captivity ourselves, so we do not want to treat others likewise. But in some cases, you might have to keep an animal in captivity for their own welfare or the welfare of the public because, sometimes, if they are allowed to roam, they might cause harm to other people. 

If that is the case they have to be put in a cage to prevent them from hurting others, and also hurting themselves because they eventually might get killed. So captivity might be for special reasons, but generally speaking, we should not put animals or people in a cage. We should let them live freely.

Q: Elephants are used in Buddhist Processions. The elephant is considered a sacred/special animal as it is used to carry the sacred relics of the Buddha during the procession seasons. Many consider that the animal acquires a lot of merit by carrying the Tooth Relic of the Buddha as it is a wonderful opportunity for the animal to be trained to perform a sacred task. Does the tusker acquire merit by performing such tasks? 

Does the elephant have a feeling that it is performing a sacred act?

A: No, because the elephant does not know what it is doing. In order for you to make merit, you should know that you are doing something good for somebody then you can gain merit. But if you are forced to do it, you are just doing it because you are like a slave then you do not get any merit.

Q: Doesn’t the elephant have a feeling that it is performing a sacred act?

A: I don’t think so. I don’t think the elephant knows what is going on.

Q: Some people hold the view that animals are made for human consumption/use and therefore animal abuse is acceptable. What is the Buddhist point of view?

A: The Buddhist view is we should have loving kindness for all forms of beings -whether humans or animals. We should not treat them badly or abuse them. 

We should give them loving kindness.

Q: I recently came across a social media post that said that those who overreact to animal suffering or who are fully devoted to animal welfare are more likely to be reborn in non-human or animal realms in their subsequent births. Is there any truth behind such claims based on the teachings of the Buddha?

A: No, there is no truth to this at all. The only way that you can be born as an animal is when you break the Precepts like killing, stealing, committing adultery, or lying. This can cause you to be reborn in the animal realms of existence. Otherwise, if you have close contact with animals that does not mean that you will be reborn as an animal.

Q: In which Suttas, did the Buddha highlight the importance of treating animals with loving kindness? 

Could you enlighten us on the precise teachings of the Buddha regarding the treatment of animals?

A: I cannot quote a Sutta, but I can quote you the general teachings of the Buddha. We should have the four Brahma-Viharas when dealing with other beings, that we should have loving kindness, we should have compassion, we should have sympathetic joy, and should have equanimity when we deal with every type of beings whether human or animal.

Q: What qualities should an ideal Buddhist possess?

A: Buddhists should possess Brahma Viharas (the four qualities of a Brahma) which is mettā, karuṇā, muditā, and upekkhā translated as loving kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity.

Q: Is it more virtuous to offer eatables to a starving human than an animal?

A: No, you get the same merit whether you offer to a human or an animal.


“Dhamma in English, Jul 25, 2023.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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This Q&A was also published here:

https://www.sundayobserver.lk/2023/07/30/spectrum/treat-others-way-you-want-be-treated


This Q&A was also published here:

https://www.sundayobserver.lk/2023/07/30/spectrum/treat-others-way-you-want-be-treated

“Once your mind becomes peaceful and happy, then you’ll look at everything as perfect.”

The Teachings of Ajahn Suchart.

13 November 2024

“Once your mind becomes peaceful and happy, then you’ll look at everything as perfect.”

Male:  “You said, ‘We have to control our mind,’ but the Buddha said, ‘Everything is anattā’, we cannot control anything. So, we’re trying to control our mind, but at the same time we know we cannot control anything.”

Than Ajahn:  “We can control the mind because if we don’t control the mind, the mind will control us. When the Buddha said, ‘Everything cannot be controlled,’ he doesn’t mean the mind cannot be controlled.”

Male:  “It means except for the mind?”

Than Ajahn:  “Yes, you can control the mind. 

Everything else outside of your mind, you cannot control. Like your body, your body is not the mind, so you cannot control it. The weather, you cannot control it. Your money, you cannot control it. Your wife, your kids, you cannot control them. But you can control your mind to make it calm and happy, regardless of whatever happens. 

We’re doing the wrong things. We do not control something we can control, but we go control something we cannot control. So, we are always in trouble. We always feel bad because we can never be able to control what we want to control. It’s because we don’t know what we can control and what we cannot control. It’s the Buddha who has discovered that if you want to control something, you control your mind. 

Once you can control your mind, everything is perfect. 

If you try to control everything else, nothing is ever perfect. So, if you want to have everything perfect, just control your mind. 

Once your mind becomes peaceful and happy, then you’ll look at everything as perfect. Really! Everything is perfect. People crying, people laughing, all are perfect. This is the way things are. Once you can control your mind, you’re not hurt or affected by what you see or what you hear.”


From “Dhamma in English to layperson from France, Mar 5-8, 2018.”

By Ajahn Suchart Abhijāto

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